If It Wasn't For Me...

You wouldn't have that if it wasn't for me. You wouldn't be this if it wasn't for me. You wouldn't be that if it wasn't for me. Is it just me or are there other people out there who despise those words?  I simply cannot stand those words.  Most of the time, I'm like, who are you? What did you do? What is so special about what you've done? What's the big deal? And then I realise, I can't blame them, I have myself to blame. I gave them the power to say those things to me. Yes, I did!  Nobody really cares about what you're going through, all they care about is what they see. So why shouldn't I get out of my comfort zone and get things done myself? Why shouldn't I get what I want?, what I deserve? Why wait for 'them' to help me? Why shouldn't I get busy? There are one thousand and one things to do and do well once you've figured yourself out. You need to know yourself, understand yourself and that's it. The sky will be your starting point. It's a very funny world but unfortunately, most people don't get the joke. The joke in this context is what you want to do with your life. Once you know that, you start to understand life and you get to see that life is really not as difficult as you think. 

Remember, nobody has it all, so, don't give shallow-minded people the power to tell you "if it wasn't for me". Get up and do what you were born to do!